2009
Jul 
23

Sex is complicated

Filed under: Deep Thoughts,Justice and Service,Ministry — Tags: , , — RichieDaley @ 6:56 pm  

By saying what she said about gay unions moments after the swimsuit competition, Ms. California was basically telling the world, “We do the same things, but for gay people it’s sin. Lust is good, objectifying my body is normal, the fulfillment of all desire is good.” Then, on the other hand, she says to the gay and lesbian world, “But you can’t do any of this, because you’re different.”

Such an episode reveals the inner contradiction of our own sexual life and politics as evangelicals.

via:Miss California and the Politics of Sexual Redemption | Out of Ur | Conversations for Ministry Leaders.

One of the many thoughts that have come to my mind since starting seminary is that Sex, Sexuality, Orientation, Gender Identity  and the “politics”  surrounding all of these things are very complicated and are rarely addressed (both inside and outside the church) in a way that reflects that there are more dimensions to this than political lines would have you think.

The article above from Christianity Today looks at it from a different viewpoint, and I think it makes some very good points. Check it out and let me know what you think.

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2008
Nov 
5

President Obama – One point of impact

Filed under: Deep Thoughts — Tags: , , — RichieDaley @ 9:15 am  

Obama ran and won, I believe my kids can fly | emerging mosaic

My oldest son who many say looks like Obama and has a biracial and a immigrant parent in common insisted he stay up to see the results to their conclusion and Obama acknowledge the win. He thought nothing of saying after a basketball career at Princeton I’ll go on to the presidency. It was all within the realm of possibility and for the first time i could say without hesitation yes son you can.

His flight is no longer restricted to sports on this morning in America. A black man who has normally been relegated to the bottom of the social totem pole in America has risen to the highest office in the land.

Andre Daley (who is a Jamaican immigrant and who, as far as I can tell, is not related to me) articulates one of the huge statements that this election makes.  Earlier I talked about how if a kid is always being told everyday that the people who look like them can only be second in command, can only be important as an athlete or performer then they will believe it. This election, and for the next four years, African American children have one heck of a proof of concept.

I look forward to the first Asian American, Hispanic American, presidents as well.

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2008
Sep 
20

The psychology of Liberals and Conservatives, and building a movement that reaches both

Filed under: Deep Thoughts,Ministry — Tags: , , — RichieDaley @ 10:16 pm  

So I have the TED talks on my feed and I found this fascinating talk on the psychological differences  between liberals and conservatives. And just a note before we begin, yes this is an election year, but I must point out for the sake of this talk that liberal and conservative are not the same as democrat and republican.

Check the video out below.

Jonathan Haidt on the moral roots of liberals and conservatives | Video on TED.com.

The short version of this is that there are 5 psychological foundations for morality, “1) harm/care, 2) fairness/reciprocity (including issues of rights), 3) ingroup/loyalty, 4) authority/respect, and 5) purity/sanctity” (as described on the associated YourMorals.org website). And that the difference that their research has found indicates that those who are politically conservative value the latter 3 significantly more than liberals. Haidt doesn’t believe that one point of view is better than the other, but instead urges us to see beyond our own “moral matrix” and understand the value that the other side brings to the conversation.

For those of you who are interested in crafting movements/messages to make the world a better place, check out the video, and think about how the movements and messages you create are pitched. If we are going to make the entire world a better place, then we need to get the entire world involved.

Secondly, I’m curious about the psychological profiles of the people who read the blog. Go to YourMorals.org and take the Moral Foundations Questionnaire (it won’t take long I promise you). Come back and post your scores. Here are mine

  • Harm/Care: 3.8
  • Fairness: 3.8
  • Loyalty: 2.4
  • Authority: 1.8
  • Purity: 2.9
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2008
Jul 
28

Luke 14 and the Daniel Question

Filed under: Deep Thoughts — Tags: , , , , — RichieDaley @ 10:32 pm  

So not too long ago I’ve been reading the first part of Luke 14, here it is below.

One Sabbath, when Jesus went to eat in the house of a prominent Pharisee, he was being carefully watched. There in front of him was a man suffering from dropsy. Jesus asked the Pharisees and experts in the law, “Is it lawful to heal on the Sabbath or not?” But they remained silent. So taking hold of the man, he healed him and sent him away.

Then he asked them, “If one of you has a son[a] or an ox that falls into a well on the Sabbath day, will you not immediately pull him out?” And they had nothing to say.

When he noticed how the guests picked the places of honor at the table, he told them this parable: “When someone invites you to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, for a person more distinguished than you may have been invited. If so, the host who invited both of you will come and say to you, ‘Give this man your seat.’ Then, humiliated, you will have to take the least important place. But when you are invited, take the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he will say to you, ‘Friend, move up to a better place.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all your fellow guests. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.”

Then Jesus said to his host, “When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”

    It occurs to me that there are two things going on here. The first was that Jesus was eating with the Pharisees. From what I know of Jewish culture at the time, having a meal at someone’s house was something one didn’t do lightly. Traditionally Jews didn’t eat with Gentiles at all because that was joining too closely with a people who were against what they believed with.  At another point in the gospel of Luke, people are aghast at Jesus when he eats with the tax collector (read:traitor to the Jews) Zaccheus and his friends, how could Jesus join himself with such people. And yet, while sitting at dinner with the Pharisees, and showing his kinship with them, he also takes a moment (or several) to speak out against the immoralities that was happening all around him.

    It’s something that I missed all the times when I’ve read this previously, Jesus did not allow his disagreement with the behaviour of the Pharisees to prevent him from sitting at the table with them, at the same time he did not allow the bonds he was actively developing with the Pharisees to come in the way of him speaking out against their behaviour. He both sat and the table, and he did not play their games.

    It’s similar to what happened with Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego in the book of Daniel. Several times in the book we see areas where these four Hebrews refuse to give way to the Babylonian authorities, and the Babylonian way of life. On the other hand, we also see these men submitting to learn Babylonian history and literature, and to become part of the Babylonian government. In some ways, they too sat at the table and did not play the Babylonian games. The thing that I’ve never completely figured out, is where they drew the line between sitting at the table and playing the games.

    Today, with this year being an election year, my thoughts turn to politics. Where do we draw the line between sitting at the table and playing the game? Similarly, in business/commerce where can we draw the line?

    I’d like to hear some of your thoughts about where you personally draw the line in different parts of your life between sitting at the table and playing the corrupt games.

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    2008
    Jun 
    23

    Now you can try your hand at the US Budget

    Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , — RichieDaley @ 7:23 pm  

    Play Budget Hero

    It’s interesting. Give it a shot. Post comments

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    2008
    Mar 
    30

    Late Night notes as I enjoy WordPress 2.5

    Filed under: Personal — Tags: , , , , , , , , , — RichieDaley @ 1:51 am  

    And like Ariah, I shall use a list.

    • How brainwashed are you? It’s not the name of the quiz, but it’s a good pseudo-name. I sadly got 89%. You should take it and tell me your score in the comments. Be honest in the taking and the reporting
    • I may have figured out my personal political descriptor when it comes to American politics. At the moment I am an Optimistic Centrist. Centrist because there are things on both sides (of American politics)that I support and that I think are God-honoring. Optimistic because I much prefer to find and/or vote for the better good ideas than to pick apart and/or vote against the bad ones. I still am unable to vote in the states, so this is all theoretical anyway.
    • I will be in Trinidad for at least a week in the summer. I’m considering blowing off a particular annual summer commitment to be there for two weeks, but we shall see.
    • The sad part is that my being in Trinidad may affect my being in Atlanta for Atlanta:08 which would be horribly sad.
    • I need to stop being a 26 year old in a choir of teenagers. I’d much rather work to empower the tenors to stand on their own than be their crutch keeping them upright. We’ll see what happens next 5th Sunday (which, by my count is in June)
    • The question of what country/job/life situation I will be in come October is still very much up in the air (but descending slowly) definitely pray for wisdom guidance about it.
    • WordPress 2.5 is really pretty nifty so far.
    • Web stuff in process – check out www.thereforegointl.com

    Ok here ends the update. I’m going to bed now

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